Often, it is not the thought of your man being with another woman that hurts when you find out he's been cheating. It is that moment of asking what you did wrong or did not do and the time when you try to compare yourself to the other woman that hurts.
That's when if care isn't taken, you can lose your self esteem and worth as a woman. What does she look like? What does she do differently? Am I not woman enough? These and more can make you lose it.
Guys it isn't about you and which woman you choose to be with. It is about how we pick up the pieces. That's when she loses confidence if she doesn't handle it carefully. No matter what, she does lose it for a split second.
Dear woman, I know it hurts. This too shall pass, it's just a phase if only you'll hold on and work on yourself.
The sun should shine again. If only you don't drown yourself in self pity and sorrow. Accept the reality of your situation. Clean your wounds and allow them to heal.
Learn to reintegrate into society. Let the scars be proof of the strength you exude as a woman: you go down but not stay fallen forever.
Yes you can do this!
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