DIARY OF A SCORNED WOMAN: THE DREAM PUSHERS, 'LEON'

When I met Leon, we both knew we could never be together. I became his confidant while he was fleeing from the pressures of other women. We began to hang out because he felt I was the better option, with me he was safe....

Unfortunately one session of pleasure became addictive and we continued  till he left the country.
I realised something about Leon and all the other men I've dated.
Leon was the typical go-getter who pushed people in his life; girlfriend or bedmate to chase their dreams and ensured he supported the dream whether physically, financially or in any other way.

I've met men after Leon, who have not been supportive of my dreams. Not physically or in any other way. Not even when they had the resources to push my dreams. I realised that some men have their own agenda for being in your life.

They don't care about you, neither do they care about your happiness or how you turn out when they leave your life. All they care about is what they can benefit from you while they are in your life. In short, they are not helpers or dream pushers.

 Why should they push your dreams? They will take you nowhere neither will they benefit from your dreams- so they think. Some even help destroy or ruin your little empire, till you're left with nothing. Call them the destroyers...

However, Leon's type of men are the men who feel no matter who they find themselves with, they must add value to them and leave an impression. They don't care if they end up with you or not, they know how to take care of a woman and not leave her scorned.

Nothing hurts more than a man who comes into the life of a woman and leaves her sky with no stars but rather scars in her heart. If you cannot be supportive of her dreams, perhaps because she does not deserve it in your opinion, just don't help to ruin her empire. 

The men who leave you and when you have to feel scorned, you  can count more stars than that brief moment of feeling scorned, that you have absolutely no reason to feel scorned.
In choosing, would you men like a 'Leon'? Love hurts, love heals....

........Puppishgirl

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