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Sunday 9 October 2016

What's Your Excuse?

I remember  when we were  growing  up, my neighbor's dad was blind yet there was no single Sunday that he and his Dad would not attend church service. They were always early though they attended  a church  in the neighborhood. Each Sunday, he would hold his Dad's  hand and walk him  to church.

Unfortunately, my neighbor aged twenty at the time, died of sickle cell  anemia. His family was shattered  and you can imagine  how his Dad felt it should  have  been  him instead of his son. His Dad still went to church  on Sundays only this time, he was being  escorted by his daughter; Korlekie who was younger. Mr. Ocansey died a few years later. A family  of four, was now reduced to a family  of two.

Korlekie Ocansey, had qualified  as  a nurse and found a husband right after school. She also died exactly  a year after her wedding: a day after their wedding  anniversary. She had died whilst giving birth. The baby also died four days later. So in six  years, three members  of the family  had died.  Leaving  only their Mum behind. I can't imagine  how Mrs. Ocansey   must have felt losing everything  she had ever labored for on earth, I guess.

Two years on, I would have thought  Mrs. Ocansey would stop going to church after death  had stolen  her joy away, but no. No Sunday passes without you seeing Mrs. Ocansey   going to church. She's still an active  Pentecost  member, attending services  on weekdays  and Sundays. She has not quit her job neither has she moved houses or grown cold or hostile towards anyone. Not that I have heard of. I wouldn't  know what goes on in her house though. Or even in her bedroom. Only God knows what needless pain she bears.

Now tell me, what excuse do you have to give up on whatever  it is you are doing? Have you had your joy stolen? Have you tried something  in particular for so long and never succeeded? Or did you begin a particular journey  thinking  it would end well only to have to return  to the starting point? Thinking  nothing is worth trying again? Or perhaps you are even scared to attempt that particular  thing again for the fear of being scarred?

Today, after hearing the story of Mrs. Ocansey, you have absolutely  no excuse in life again. It can only be over when the whistle is blown for you to signify your race here on the field of life is over. If not, my dear friend, you have no excuse. You can only rise up and try again!











This is a true life story but the names have been  changed.

Friday 7 October 2016

Lovely Darkness

Dark clouds....
Dark clouds lingering 
Tears streaking from the innermost part
A knife through my heart
Shadows  of you...
Footprints in the sand but invisible in the dark
Dark clouds of torment, pain and torture.
Still I stand unshaken,
Away from the uncertainties  and doubts of this place.
You fly  with  angels whilst I lay  reminiscing in  pain.
Darkness why...
You showed up clothed in beautiful  garments,
yet your garments  are that of pain and torture.
Darkness why....
Your icy grip.
Broken but not destroyed,
Caged but not  imprisoned
Clipped wings but not damaged,
Still I sail on,
I journey  on,
I war on,
like  the fighter I am.
Oh darkness,
Till I shall see this darkness no more....



Thursday 6 October 2016

Bring Me Flowers

'Bring me flowers
Beautiful flowers
Bring them whilst I can still admire them
Bring it whilst  I can still inhale it's  sweet  fragrance 
Bring me flowers  when I can still say thank you
Remember  to bring  me flowers.'

             ~Bring Me Flowers ~  PPG


The other day, I decided to ignore  one of my friends. She is one of those people  who sent you messages  whether you  replied  or not. Her messages  came through  as early  as 5 am in the mornings  and for me, that isn't  an appropriate  time to be texting people . Yes, that's  when my body is getting  ready to wake up by the sound of my alarm at 5. 10. What's   the   point, I  have  to rise up and get ready to leave home thus, I have  no time for replying  messages. It isn't  part of my rising hour routine.

Usually  I  would reply  later in the day either with a thank you or a comment  supporting the message. Lately, for five  or so months, I  have  become  annoying  as described  by most  people. I would  read and not respond or acknowledge  receipt. It was not deliberate  it's  just that life got really busy I could barely  indulge  in little  things. I even  prefer quick calls to texting but again  people  would  not understand. This has often been  mistaken for arrogance  or just deliberately  ignoring  people. I knew  I was going to  be losing friends in the end but believe  me,  I just did not  have   time. I began  to  understand  someone  who prior to this  time told me he only responded to the ones he thought  were important. I lost touch with  the  world, I  was just not reading anything  outside  my area of focus.

This morning, that same friend sent   a text and this  time, I  read it but ignored  her.  Then, I saw lots of messages  on a particular  page  I belonged to.  I noticed  the word 'condolences ran through  most of the  messages  ...' so I got curious and opened it. My friend  had lost her Dad this morning, same time she had been  texting her motivational  message  to me for the  day. People  on our   page were sending  in their messages  of condolences. Oh wow! Where did that leave me? What did that say about me?

I'm thinking, this is how we take  people : family  and friends  for granted. By not responding to them promptly , extending a helping  hand when we have  to or generally  just being  there for them. We are obviously  busy with our lives, trying  to  achieve  our goals and leaving  out the aspect  where we need  to  work  on most. Everyone needs someone. You do and I  do too.  Why wait to send flowers  after they aren't  here when  we can send flowers now. Sending  people  flowers  when they are dead, or sending  flowers  to their family isn't  bad but do we  really have  to wait till they are dead to send them flowers? When we can send them now?

Dear you, my prayers and thoughts  are with you.
My sincere  condolences xx

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