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Sunday 22 November 2020

SPOILT MEN!

I remember growing up, my dad would wash my panties even at JHS 2 and he would cook for us. He found delight in cooking for us especially when my Mum was not around. He did virtually everything for us. I grew up wanting a man like my dad.

 In my eyes, he was perfect. 
He taught me that a girl's real dance must be with her Dad. I remember us always having a dance competition where my siblings were the Judges.

He knew the answer to every single question we would ask him. He lied to me or so that knowledge was in every single book. He made me read from John Grisham to Jackie Collins. He bought them and did not limit me. My first table lesson was from my Dad. He taught my siblings and I to use our cutlery correctly and he ensured that you used it at the table and he would stress that you ate quickly but not in a way that will choke you.

These current crop of  men can't even cut up water melon or tomatoes. They think that being able to afford a woman's need is all there is to manhood. Some think that it's a woman's duty to clean and  cook for them. They can't even make an omelette to save a life. 

They burden their women with everything from cutting their nails to fixing their meals. Spoilt men!. Their manhood is only in their financial muscles and not opening doors for women or pulling chairs for them to get seated. They want women to lick their footsteps.

Dear men, a man who can perform some basic culinary skills is not only a turn on, but will help prolong his woman's life. 
Dear women, teach your sons to cook, clean and  treat women like the English men do. We're tired of all these crop of badly behaved men parading our homes and streets. It's nauseating.
......Puppishgirl....



To the men who are not spoilt and are real gentlemen, we adore you!

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Saturday 21 November 2020

WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR YOU LATELY ?



What have I done for me lately?
Do you sometimes stop to ask yourself this question as a woman?
Sometimes we become overwhelmed by the pressures of life and womanhood 
Periods, pregnancy, childbirth
Taking care of our men, families
Ensuring we're giving our best in our various fields of expertise etc.
Sometimes taking care of our men and families becomes our top priority to the point where we forget to pause
To ask what we've done for ourselves lately
This week, read a new book and lots of articles on personal growth and development, get a new look, go to the spa and get pampered(take money from him for it if that's how you can rock you)
Go get a drink by yourself- all alone to clear your head and enjoy your 'me' time
Look out for you- instead of the world
Sometimes we forget to look out for ourselves 
No one can take care of you if you fail to take care of you first
So while you run around in this crazy world, remember to pause for a moment to ask yourself if you've done anything for yourself lately.
Remember who you are....
A woman 
You light up the world 
Keep shining woman!
...Puppishgirl...


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