The most difficult thing to say is "goodbye" and one of the hardest things to do is to "walk away forever." Yet in this life, countless times we have to bid people who mean the world to us goodbye. Sometimes they walk out of our lives and break our hearts without intending to. At other times, they consciously walk out of our lives and either decide to bid us farewell or just wait for us to understand that yes, they walked out on us.
But one major lesson 2019 has taught me is that people don't always walk out on us, sometimes, we walk out on people as well. Yes, that's the most difficult part. When you decide to walk away because you either have to or it's just time to walk away.
Don't be afraid to start all over. Sometimes, you'll have to walk away to realise you bend the rules, were in the wrong place or were getting lesser than you deserve.
Which ever way, change is never easy. There are times you walk away and rather end up having to cry a river because yes that thing called change, is never easy.
As the year ends, I thought I would remind you that, change is never easy. You'll lose out, you'll cry, you'll be alone, you'll count the losses and wish you did not have to move on but remember, sometimes you have to lose at trying in order to win in trying.
Love yourself enough to accommodate change. Allow yourself to be in that lonely position, count your losses to pick up the pieces again.
Change is good but never easy and in 2020, if you have to walk away, remember to love yourself enough to do so.
Season greetings dearies!
